Father of the Bride Words of Encouragement

Alloparenting is an individual other than the biological parent of an offspring that performs the functions of a parent. Today, we have a host of alloparents witnessing this marriage. Remember marriages, like births, mark a new beginning. Yet, I realize that Bridget and DacQuan are overwhelmed just like Debra and I were 35 years 3 months ago. Yet, the anticipation removes the fears as you build your life together in a relationship that will stand the test of time. Be true to each other always; share your joys and your burdens; love much and laugh much; be each other's best friend. Always speak well of one another, even in private. And when things don't go well, forgive as often as it is required.

Married life is an adventure and you embark today on that adventure together. Even though, you are two different individuals, the covenant that you have entered binds you to pursuit life together.

One day, if you are as fortunate as Debra and I are in the amidst of alloparents, you will stand in awe when you see a new beginning entering your family. So this apprehension and anticipation will transfer when you develop the same level of love and commitment to your marriage. Then, you will experience the same level of overwhelming joy that Debra and I are feeling right now.

Congratulations!!